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Life Lesson #45: Get the Chip Off Your Shoulder


 
See Also:
Life Lesson #94 – If You Don’t Like It, Change It
Life Lesson #72 – Place Blame Carefully
Life Lesson #21 – Stop Bullying
The Ray Kroc Story

 

Have you ever known anyone who was always upset about something? Always angry with someone? Always mistreated? Dealt with unfairly? Always getting the bad end of the deal?

People with this “chip on the shoulder” syndrome may react quietly with a “hurt feelings” attitude or maybe in a violent burst of emotion.

You know, none of us will walk through this imperfect world without some bumps and bruises from misunderstandings in human relations. But whether it is purposely dealt to you or is totally unintentional, be broad-minded and mature enough to overlook the offense or calmly communicate with the alleged offender.

There’s an old saying that goes, “A chip on the shoulder means there’s a wooden head up above.” Wasting time and effort looking for excuses to feel hurt and angry will never bring the happiness you’re looking for!

– Jim Lord